WAHOOOO!

It’s been an exhilarating couple
of weeks of playful, devoted service.

You see, when you live on purpose, the line blurs between “work and play”.

This is certainly true for me, having just been in Sedona to lead an extraordinary Wealthy Goddess Mastermind Retreat and a couple private VIP days.

(Here’s a picture of the women on the retreat. Aren’t they just exquisite? Women SHINE in their radiance when freely expressing who they are.)

I went from the retreat to launching the Wealthy Goddess 2013 Telesummit, which has been a HUGE success. Women are raving about the interviews. (You can still get them for free for a limited time.)

It’s been an honor to hold space and co-create with so many women – clients & colleagues – who are leading the new paradigm of wealth and success.

Now I’m focusing on what’s coming this fall. I’m doing NEW things and really stretching out of my comfort zone. More to come on that.

Here’s an article on 4 NO’s you’ve just got to be saying if you want to advance your success and align with your prosperous purpose…..

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You want to be wealthy?

Chances are highly likely YOU need to say NO.

Specifically, you need to say no to these Top 4 areas that otherwise, are creating a big fat wedge between you and what you say you want.

They will not be for you if you are excuse-oriented and if you want someone to rescue you. Or… if you (come on, admit it) still want to blame someone, a situation or your past.

Because…

They are part of transcending victim consciousness and living your power as a responsible creator.

#1-NO Complaining. 

Sometimes you need to vent. I get that. I do, too.

But there is a tipping point where it becomes complaining.

Complaining is useless. It doesn’t change anything.

As a matter of fact, it perpetuates more of the same.

Complaining is a reactionary state of being– reacting to people,
outward situations and circumstances from a position of victim
and helplessness.

Complaining provides the illusion of power, in that you are saying
what is wrong or bad about whatever the issue is. But really, it is a
false sense of power, rooted in victim consciousness.

TIP:  When you notice yourself complaining, pause and ask yourself
what shift you need to make in your thinking to feel in charge or if
you can truly accept what is. When you are around others who
complain, ask what they are going to do about it or leave the situation.

#2-NO Waiting.

While patience is a virtue, waiting is a life waster.

There is a distinction between patience and passivity.

Certainly practicing discernment in timing is useful.

But I’m not talking about that.

I’m talking about the illusion that if you wait long enough,
something is going to happen.

I’m talking about that idea of “some day”.

I’m talking about the waiting for permission to finally go for it.

I’m talking about the waiting for the “right” time or “right” conditions.

TIP:  Stop waiting. Decide to take action. You may not know all the “how’s”,
but you will discover that action reveals the steps you need as you go along.
You define the right time. You define the right conditions. The time is now.

#3-NO Drama. 

American culture is particularly enamored with drama.
It’s quite the phenomenon. What is it about?

Perhaps a sense of purpose is derived from it. Perhaps it brings
animation and zest in an otherwise seemingly lack-luster life.

Believe me, there are much more rewarding places
to ignite the flare that drama offers.

If you want to really live, you’ve go to let go of drama.

It is an energy drainer, and it keeps you in “story” mode.

Story mode keeps you small and limited.

And it depletes a whole lot of life force energy!

TIP:  If you engage in drama, notice how you feel. Pause. Breath.
Do you feel free? Does the story “have” you? Disengage.
Tune in with what you want and shift your attention to being
in a way that will create it.

#4- NO Fear.  

Unless you’re being chased by a tiger or your life is threatened, turn off the “fight or flight” mode.

Seriously. A lot of you (unconsciously) are making decisions about your dreams, your money, your marketing, how you use your time, etc. based in fear.

Fear of…

• Judgment
• Scarcity
• Ridicule
• Abandonment

The list goes on.

Fear is VERY convincing. So much so, that you think it’s “real”, and you let yourself become trapped in its grasp.

Your ability to manifest, capacity to attract wealth and overall quality of life is eroded through fear consciousness. You cannot create more abundance, more clients, more opportunity on fear because it is not a vibrational match to those experiences.

A general rule for me – If it doesn’t feel good when I think it, it’s a lower vibration (i.e. fear based) thought.

Raise your standards and be a fierce gatekeeper who adamantly says no to fear.

TIP: Get clear on your “core” fears and create a plan to love yourself when they arise. Create an alternate course for your head, directing your thoughts and feelings. For example, create affirmations that become part of your subconscious programming over time that support the opposite of your core fears.