Anybody else STRUGGLE with the “I’m too much, I’m not enough” dance?!

Sheesh. I’m too much. No. Wait. I’m not enough. Ah, here I am again. Being too much. Oh, great. Now I’m not enough.

Yesterday I was with some mastermind sisters and confessed how I’m grappling with ‘next level leadership fears‘. I’ve got visions to implement. People to lead. Healing to facilitate. Lives to change. Success to enjoy.

And I’m feeling the pain of holding back!

The part afraid of being too much convinces me that if I say too much… If I am too bold, too assertive, too wild, too sassy, too clear, too opinionated, too successful, too prosperous, too effective… that I’ll step on people’s toes. They’ll resent me for shining so bright. They’ll think I’m trying to take over. Or, they’ll attack me.

Then there’s the part of me afraid I’m not enough. Swinging to the other side of the pendulum, this voice weighs in. It tells me that I’m still not perfect enough. I’ve got more healing to do. More education to receive.

And then. This gold….

My sisters said to me, “PLEASE, BE TOO MUCH!”

I LOVED hearing this. It was a welcome reframe. A plea for me to BRING ALL OF WHO I AM!

I can’t afford holding back. It’s too costly. To my health. My peace of mind.

And it’s too costly to my clients. They deserve all of me. In fact, they pay me to shine in my leadership.

The truth is, I can’t deny the next level leadership surging through me. Well, I could deny it but I value my sanity too highly.

So, I invite you. Join me.

Let’s be TOO much together, shall we?