It’s so great to be alive!
If you can’t say that, we need to talk.
Somewhere along the way you picked up RIDICULOUS beliefs that separated you from your abundant nature and prosperous soul.
May is my birthday month. (YAY! The above picture I’m celebrating in my dad’s garden in Tennessee.)
This means I’m a taurus.
I’m REALLY feeling my no bull, no nonsense, grounded spirit rising up to set a few things straight.
You see, if you are NOT prospering, something is out of whack.
Because the truth is, PROSPERITY IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT & WEALTH IS YOUR TRUE NATURE.
Read on for top notch resources (including my “NO MORE Bullsh*t” article) to help you accelerate your results… transforming your each and every day to an abundant experience of aliveness!
ps. I say “bullshit” 8 times in the article.
If you like pretending and using language that doesn’t offend your sense of safety, I recommend you don’t read it. If, however, you want to play a MUCH bigger game, I’m your gal!
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People ask me all the time what I attribute my quantum leaps to.
I’m about to reveal one of my “strategies” that I haven’t talked about publicly yet.
Frankly, I was concerned that I would be too much and turn you off by my candor.
(WARNING: This is not for the faint-hearted, tight-lipped, people-pleasing, status-quo type.)
But one thing I’ve discovered? My prosperity is directly connected with the degree I’m being true to myself. So when I’m holding back, prosperity is blocked. When I’m being authentically me, prosperity is flowing. (Bonus nugget for you)
What IS this strategy that transformed my money drama & scarcity struggle into financial flow & abundant reality?
*NO MORE BULLSHIT!*
That’s right.
I took a bullshit inventory.
I woke up to all the ways I was living according to beliefs that really are bullshit.
Let me give you some examples of bullshit beliefs…
It’s normal to be constantly struggling.
Scarcity is just a reality.
It’s normal to feel bad about myself.
There’s only so much to go around.
I have to give up who I am in order to make good money.
It’s selfish to want more.
It’s not realistic to live my dreams.
My abundance will take away from others.
Poverty is just a way of life on this planet.
BULLSHIT, right?
What beliefs are you buying into? What beliefs have you resigned to as just being “true”?
Declaring bullshit meant I took a stand for a higher quality of life.
I said NO MORE to the shame & inadequacy I felt every day that I had come to believe were just a part of being me.
I said NO MORE to compromising and putting up with what just didn’t feel good.
I said NO MORE to the struggle I had become accustomed to.
Declaring bullshit also meant that I took responsibility for my results.
Yep, that requires calling bullshit on myself regarding the ways I was acting like a victim and waiting for some person, system or amount of money to rush in and rescue me.
Calling bullshit on myself required radical honesty.
It meant getting real about how I was repeating patterns that actually helped me feel justified in complaining and feeling bad about myself. (How screwed up is that?)
Listen, none of you are engaging in any patterns, even the ones that suck and (supposedly) are outside of your control, without some pay off.
You can feel immediate relief of transformation if you choose to look at how what is so “awful” is actually giving you a pay off on some level.
Don’t get me wrong, I have compassion for your past and what has happened.
But REAL compassion doesn’t stop at, “Oh, that’s awful. I’m so sorry.”
REAL compassion means as your coach I point out that on some level, you are attached to how that pattern and story is keeping you safe. REAL compassion means I hold the space for your magnificence and stop letting you shrink into your small game. REAL compassion says BULLSHIT– you are more than that!
So, what about you? YOU ready to call bullshit?! (SAY YES!)
Radical honesty: For me it’s a radical act every time I think or say or do something that comes from my audacious commitment to seeing and expressing love and joy. Because that’s not what I’m trained to do and it’s not my habit.
Calling bullshit on the habitual negative deprivation/entitlement thoughts and actions that are programmed into me is radical and hard and the only way I’ve found to liberate myself, set myself free, and live a juicy audacious useful life, yo.
Love and light,
Sue
BRAVO!! Now that’s what I call a REAL blog post! So related on so many levels. That secret embarrassing belief rears it’s ugly head often…”I have to give up who I am in order to make good money.” I’m so tired of that I could scream! Thank you for all your raw inspiration xoxo
WAHOOO! Love to celebrate the real and the raw with you. To me, it’s the place we are REALLY going to make progress and sustainable change. I hear ya about that belief re: having to give up who you are to make good money. It’s been a big one for me. What I know to be true is that we each have gifts to share, to contribute as part of the whole. It’s in our Divine alignment to serve in that capacity, so OF COURSE our needs will be met… in plenty. You are welcome, dear Marla. 🙂
Sue! I love that… a radical act “… that comes from my audacious commitment to seeing and expressing love and joy.” Well said! Keep saying yes to the liberation, the freedom, the juicy audacious useful life that IS your birthright. 🙂
Love it 🙂 I totally agree, all this nicey-nice BULLSHIT that makes up most of the self-help world is totally ineffective and produces little to no results. So amen to everything you said 🙂