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Do you need a money healing?

You may not have considered “healing” as part of re-creating your relationship with money.

For most, that is exactly what is needed to be free.

See, a lot of us have a relationship with money that has been contorted and perverted through beliefs of scarcity, power and security.

We go to money as a “cure” for our woes, wanting it to help us feel safe and provided for.

That doesn’t work. It’s a shallow and incomplete strategy that will keep you on an endless and dissatisfying search.

To support you, I have a new approach.

It may seem radical.

It will help you create more money in a way that feels soulful, authentic and free!

As you know by now, I’ve been dealing with intense health issues for a couple months.

(Admittedly, I didn’t go straight to seeing the blessing in the unraveling…

… but I did eventually get there.) 

It’s demanded more layers of healing.

It’s like my body and soul just said NO MORE. No more carrying ANY remnants of the old consciousness in your being!

Healing is a discharging of emotional triggers and wounds that have kept you stuck in the past and limited in your capacity to advance freely to the next version of your expanded self.

Healing is the salve for the places that yearn for love and nurturing that were buried away out of shame or fear.

Healing is the restoration to wholeness.

I am sincerely grateful that I did my money healing some years ago! It has allowed me to dedicate the required attention to my health.

The freedom I created by tending to my money healing in those first years of my business has provided me the leverage and the time to prioritize my health and nourish myself while being sick, healing and recovering.

It’s given me a whole new appreciation for what I’ve created!

Listen, I get what it feels like to be trapped in the money game.

When I was challenged by money, I felt:

+ Helpless
+ Embarrassed
+ Restless
+ Discouraged
+ Ashamed
+ Desperate

Until I got down on my knees and had a good “talking to” with God/Source. We made an “arrangement” so that I could turn around this dysfunctional cycle … for me… and now for you.

My Medicine of Money course was birthed from the dark night of my soul with money. It addresses the underlying issues that are sabotaging your money, prosperity & wealth.

I’d be honored to serve your freedom.

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

ps. Join us as we awaken to a new world where prosperity flows.

As a woman insanely committed to women’s liberation, I can’t help but have a fire in my belly about MONEY.

Why?

Because personal freedom includes remembering your capacity to manifest all the resources necessary to experience the highest heights of fulfillment possible while you carry out the joy of your soul’s purpose!!

And this encompasses ALL areas of life.

Health, career, relationships, sex and… money.

A lot of spiritual type’s still resist the money part.

We think it’s below us. It’s just part of the global crisis we are here to undo.

We believe it’s opposite of the spiritual values we strive to embody.

Or we feel guilty wanting more when others have so little.

But those “enlightened” beliefs bring a different set of problems.

So…I want to introduce you a whole new mindset that I know if you adopt, will revolutionize your relationship with money.

Let’s face it. There is not ONE area of your life that money does not touch.

Attempting to deny its influence in your life will block your ability to pursue your biggest dreams and experience your most expanded and alive self.

That is just crazy-making! You are here for more!

I want you to join me for my FREE seminar, April 15, 12pm.

My style is unconventional. I don’t hold back.

What makes this content unique is that we get into the REAL issues surrounding money (rather than a quick fix).

“How To Awaken To The Surprising Healing Power Of Money For Greater Abundance, Security & Freedom!”

In my BOLD content-rich seminar you’ll discover:

* Why money is still a struggle for you and how to break your money stress once and for all
* How money can be a great healer that expands your abundance (not in the ways you think)
* How I consistently create 5 figure months AND even 6 figure weeks in my business (I’ve manifested $40,000 in one week and over 150K in 3 days!)
* Refreshing spiritual insight on how to relate to money that will transform struggle into ease in your financial affairs
* 3 limited beliefs that block you from receiving the bounty that is your birthright
* Exactly how I can help accelerate your money manifesting so you add 1k, 5K and 10K to your income every month

I am SO excited about how many of you have already signed up!

If you haven’t yet, GO HERE >>> SIGN UP FOR FREE MONEY SEMINAR NOW 

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

ps. I’m taking a stand. NO MORE broke change agents!

And, if you don’t consider yourself “broke”, let me ask you this…. Do you make a lot of money and feel trapped by it?

I work with clients and peers who generate 6 and even 7 figures who still feel trapped by the money.

That’s because it’s NEVER about the amount of money we make.

Ever.

Here’s to FREEDOM!

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YOUR TRUTH.

Don’t let anyone deny you of your truth!

Your truth will guide you.
Your truth will enrich you.
Your truth will free you.
Your truth will save you.

If I listened to the naysayers (including my own inner critic), I would not lead the prosperous life I do. I would be unhappy and unrealized.

I would be TRAPPED in a cage of dogma that kept me “safe” in the rules of society.

(Cuz a woman in her truth is dangerous, don’t you know?!)

Oh, and this vision you see in the pictures would not have manifested.

Because 12 + years ago, I remember dreaming up the idea that I would lead retreats in high-vibe locations of beauty, health and soulful inspiration.

I remained steadfast. I persevered. I got up when I fell down.

I stayed TRUE to me.

This ISN’T about pretty pictures of radiant women living in luxury (although women do need to own their worth and allow for such simple decadence in their lives)…

It’s about reclaiming our power and liberating ourselves and each other by unleashing the authentic truth that heals!

NOW is the time.

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

ps. Pics by the fabulous Lindsay A Miller at Wealthy Goddess Kauai 2015.

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Like a SEED sprouting from the dark of the earth, I’m slowly starting to see the light again.

It mandated a new kind of patience and trust to get through this latest phase of growth. It required getting friendly with the dark rather than resisting it. It demanded an unfailing attention, my impeccable presence.

(Avoidance, denial or fighting it just created more pain.)

I had to DIG DEEP. I honestly didn’t know if I had it in me and was flattened by a debilitating fear about how (and even IF) I’d get through… and who I was going to be on the other side of this passage.

Having come undone from the reality I was comfortable in, I had no reference for what could be.

As a seer and guide of expansion, a lesson from my dark night I impart to you:

It isn’t about getting over it, it’s about ACCEPTANCE.

In acceptance, I stopped giving life force to the battle. I ceased creating more suffering by engaging the belief that I should be anywhere other than where I was.

Acceptance is tricky. Misunderstood, it can lead to passivity, self-betrayal and going along with things that are just plain dysfunctional and bad for you.

But that is NOT what I’m talking about here.

I’m not saying that I lay down my values or dignity. I’m not using acceptance as a form of giving up on my health, my happiness and quality of life. I will always remain a stand for the best in all there is to have, be and do.

Please hear me on this one!

I’m not advocating that you just “go along” with any and everything in your life. There are people you need to say no to. There are boundaries to be set. There are standards to walk away from. There are morals to be upheld.

ACCEPTING WHAT IS is not an invitation to be a victim to whatever happens. It’s not about putting up with or tolerating ongoing choices and circumstances that keep you in mediocrity.

What it is… A spiritual call to greater peace and serenity. A salve for the hurt parts that need to be loved up. A cure to stop the insanity and create enduring freedom.

Carl Rogers said, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

Many times, the motive for change stems from the impulse to get away from the feelings that ultimately we are meant to learn and grow through. We resist being where we are. That’s avoidance. And then we DISGUISE our drive for change in a cloak of positivity.

As I was going through my dark night, I knew that I didn’t want to live like that.

Yet, there was a wisdom in me that knew that the only way out was THROUGH.

I was meant to feel it all. ALL of it… the good, the bad and the ugly.

I was meant to retrieve the parts of me that I had denied for years that were hurting for attention.I was meant to become a more compassionate person by being stretched to new dimensions. I was meant to share the transmission of consciousness I could only communicate by being willing to BE with what was arising.

I AFFIRM: I am free through acceptance.

*What are you willing to be a FOOL for?!*

I remember when I took the leap into entrepreneurship.
I felt like I was putting everything on the line.

My heart. My finances. My purpose.

I didn’t know what I was doing (still don’t. hee hee),
but deep inside I understood that NOT taking the risk
was a bigger risk.

I felt so vulnerable about staking my claim. “I am a coach.
This is what I can do for you. These are my gifts to the
world, and they have value. I am passionate. These are my
beliefs and this is my expertise.”

(Launching my first website kept me up at night because
I felt like people could “see” me.)

Picture by Lindsay A. Miller. #WealthyGoddessLive 2015.

Purpose is a paradox. On the one hand, I feel designed
for what I do. It’s natural, and I couldn’t get through
this life satisfied if I didn’t honor it. On the other hand,
it feels so exposing and tender. I question if I’m doing it
“right”. But if it’s natural and part of my design, why do
I question it?

I’ve come to believe that purpose is like handing our heart
to the world. It’s the here-I-am-as-I-am authentic offer.
The vulnerability I feel = Will my gift be accepted? Will
it offer value? Will I be rejected?

Ultimately I knew I had to “get over myself“. Upon my return
from one of my gut-wrenching, global-awakening and heart-opening
experiences in Nigeria, Africa…

… I pledged to BE A FOOL if necessary to help create change.

I may make mistakes.
I may fall flat on my face.
I may fail.
I may be made a fool.

But it’s worth it to me.

Make me a fool for the cause of change.
Make me a fool for healing.
Make me a fool for our return to wholeness.
Make me a fool for the love of life and all our relations.

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

My clients make me a better person.

I can’t get lazy or be out of integrity. At least if I want to feel good about myself.

Plus, in order to support their growth, I have to be consistent in my growth.

I love how their presence in my life keeps me awake.
Thank you.

(Pic from VIP day with the fabulous Megan Walrod in Kauai.)

In graduate school, teachers told me that my clients would only go as far as I do.

Well then. My latest gateway of growth is an indication that my clients are in for some quantum leaps!

But let’s be honest. I know change can be hard. Oh, come on, it can be downright terrifying.

Truth be told, my ego has been screaming for certainty the last couple months.

It’s been messy.

Not the pretty “persona” that you see in marketing.

I’ve been crying, shaking, laying on my back for hours.

Why do I tell you these things?

Because you typically gaze at successful people with admiration assuming they don’t go through the same hardships.

Then, you separate yourself from the possibility that you, too, could reach the heights of that kind of success.

You think your desired manifestations are so far away or too ideal.

You presume that if you feel scared, intense emotion, extreme self-doubt, waves of insecurity…

… that you don’t “have what it takes” to succeed.

Rubbish!

What’s real is that we are all human.

Nobody is immune to the cycle’s of life and the inevitable intense emotions that can come with passing through another portal of expansion!

I just wanted to reach out and tell you this.

I’m led to transparency because I know it breaks down the walls and help you access the higher truth.

I believe in you. We’re in this together.

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

What’s with the “freedom lifestyle business” CRAZE?!

I’m concerned that the trend may contribute to a never-ending cycle of seeking!

What grounds it in something MEANINGFUL rather than the latest thing we chase to get temporary relief from our collective quest for security and freedom?

Might I sound like a hypocrite?

Yes, I do have a freedom lifestyle business. (A frickn’ awesome one at that!)

Do I sometimes question if my posts are perpetuating a problem rather than offering a solution? Honestly, I do.

I don’t want my raves and pictures of my travels, for instance, to communicate that THIS is what it looks like to be free. That all you need to do is plant your butt on a beach and everything in life is peachy.

I don’t really know what freedom looks like to you. I have some hunches. I have some expertise about what is required for you to be free.

But, it’s personal. And it needs to be grounded in YOUR values. Not mine. Not society’s.

So don’t fall into the trap of comparison or shoulds.

Instead, be deliberate about the lifestyle you want to build.

My message is always consistent…

…. You CAN create a lifestyle you love. One that...

*Elevates the best of your talents and purpose, serves others and brings you great joy.
*Aligns with your values – that which matters to you most and is essential to your well being.
*Gives you a deep sense of satisfaction that you are being who you came to be, and that rewards you financially.
*Empowers you to have options and choices so you pursue what lights you up and keeps you stimulated, growing and prospering.

MY WARNING to you, though, is that it MUST include the ingredients that reflect an understanding of who you are and what makes you thrive!

Don’t get short changed by copying someone else’s formula.
Don’t set yourself up for disappointment by thinking a few “strategies” is all it takes.
Don’t be a victim to hype.

Instead.

*Define your terms.*

YOUR terms, I tell ya!!

This is how we keep it meaningful. This is how we ensure it’s not just a trend.

Because beyond the HYPE of this “freedom lifestyle business” is a deep longing. A pursuit worthy of our time.

To be free.

It starts with you. It ends with you.

With all that I am,

Kendra E Thornbury, MA

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I remember when I “woke up” with the revelation that MY CHOICES could influence my reality.

It was delivered through a SUDDEN HEALTH CRISIS 20 + years ago. I was handed a slip of paper with a diagnosis, and with it, a loaded list of assumptions and prescribed life.

I was jaw-drop stunned.

Yet…

…I could feel a FIERCE WARRIOR inside me insisting on more.

She told me that I could be my own advocate.
She helped me remember I could access greater  wisdom about my power and inner authority.

She guided me to understand how to make choices that shape my destiny.

(Picture taken by Lindsay A. Miller, Kauai Wealthy Goddess Retreat 2014.)

It was then that I REJECTED what I had been told was ‘true’, and became a rigorous student in optimal health and manifesting.

Just before that I had been seeking my FREEDOM.

Like many young adult women, I unfortunately was looking in the wrong places. With an incessant need for approval and validation, I made unhealthy decisions. I didn’t know my limits. I didn’t know how to say no. I didn’t know how to follow my intuition. I didn’t know I was
okay to be me.

My health awakening commanded that I examine my choices.

For the first time, I was looking more closely into the mirror of cause and effect. If I make this choice….I go down that road. If I make that choice…. I go down another.

Seems simple when I say it now. But at the time, it was life-changing.

Like many women, I had created a persona and a set of defense mechanisms to keep me “SAFE” in the world.

I had learned that shining my light brought too much unwanted attention. I had discovered the cruelty of others’ insecurities projected on me. I had shrunk in the face of rejection when attempting to show my true self.

So, I constructed my walls to ‘make do’ in a world that denies women a TRULY safe culture to discover and express her authentic, unapologetic, wild, joyous self.

As a result, I had forgotten who I really was. I just thought I was supposed to be a good girl and respond to what was outside me. The strongest personality, the more knowledgeable authority, the circumstances. I was a REACTOR of life.

But …

… My soul had ENOUGH of my complacency, my quiet desperation and my compromised truth.

That’s when the wake up happened. And it had to happen in such a way that got my attention. Sometimes, a crisis or reality-bending challenge is the only route to get us to listen.

The lessons of that time still shape me today.

Here are a few lessons I believe will serve you:

1) I GAVE THANKS FOR THE CHALLENGE!

At the time, I embraced a belief that there was wisdom in my soul and trusted the opportunities that wanted to emerge. If I had responded with fear, labels, resentment or victim consciousness, I would have missed a profound opening. I’d definitely be living a caged life today.

2) I CONSIDERED EXPERT ADVICE AND WEIGHED IT CONSCIOUSLY ALONG SIDE MY INNER AUTHORITY!

Clearly, there are many resources in our system. I am grateful for advancements, technology, research and people who care about science and make a study of it all. But, I also allowed my inner wisdom to be part of the equation. I didn’t let my voice be drown out. I didn’t let the trance of external authority determine my path. I tapped a deeper knowing of what was right for me. I learned to listen to my body. Experiment with how I felt. Trust my intuition. I created a health and lifestyle plan based on my values and what brought out the best in me.

3) I TOOK CHARGE!

Initially, the reactor in me felt shaken by what was happening. Had I followed that initial response, I would have set in motion a pathway of helplessness, limitation and dissatisfaction. Fortunately, my bold soul had my attention as well. I was aroused by the understanding that I could change my reality and make choices that influenced my destiny. So, I chose to be the creator. I took responsibility for my life, my health and my reality. I fired my doctor. I hired a new one who took a holistic approach. I asked questions. I investigated. I raised my standards. I changed habits. I adopted a new mindset. I became aware of my thought patterns. I made choices in line with the results I wanted. I refined my ability to direct my attention and energy. I did not let anyone or anything distract me from creating what I knew was possible. I remained steadfast in my vision of vital health.

Life’s too precious to fill my time with tolerations and “good enough”.

With my recent health issues, I’ve chosen an opportunity to really make sure that my life is aligned. Like REALLY. Every aspect.

I mean, my life was AWESOME when all this came down in January. That’s been part of my puzzlement and resistance to it, actually. Why would I be faced with such challenges when I’m so in the sweet spot of my purpose? (On some level, I know it’s because there’s a clearing out for the next phase.)

Our emotions and bodies have intelligence. In a society that numbs out both as much as possible, we deny the wisdom they have for us.

And my emotions and body are talking! I could try to resist it. I could attempt to control it. I could ignore it. Yet all those approaches prolong the process and lead to more chronic issues.

So, I’m listening. I’m tuning IN to hear what information is there. I’m still discovering the “translations”. i.e What is my body attempting to tell me? What are my emotions desiring to help me see or feel?

Life gives us feedback. For instance, stress is feedback. It’s an effect of choices you are making (or not making). Not honoring your truth, eating unhealthy, not enough self care, pent up grief…. just some examples of things that create stress in your system.

Stress is telling you… YOU NEED TO CHANGE. The balance is off. It’s not something you have to live with. It’s not something you have to put up with. It’s not a prescription to a new “normal”.

My advice? Take the wisdom of your body and emotions seriously. They are part of your guidance system. It’s time to listen.

I am. Humbly.